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We spoke with a former escort recently about her time in the business. Her answers might surprise some of you. She articulated that, in her experience, it is more about communication and the mind, then it is about the body and great sex.

“Some people assume that we are having non-stop great sex every night with a client. That is not always the case. Some of the best times I have had with a client is when he and I are sitting around talking about life. You might be surprised at how many extremely intelligent high profile clients I have dealt with. Sex is also part of the package(no pun intended) but it is not the be-all and end-all of the situation.”

We asked her to elaborate on some of the specifics of her experiences below with three examples.

1)Clear and Concise

Escorting can become very emotional. It does take its toll after a while. That is why I implore clients to be as honest as they can be. Honesty includes more than just when you want me to show up and what you want me to do. Almost anyone can do some of the more basic sexual services we offer. Once again, it is not about that. There have been times we get left hanging because the client says he will be there and then does not show.

Clients can be left hanging when their needs are not met. It is a responsibility that rests on both people. Clients have to tell us what they want. It is our job to come through.

What happens if there is something you do not want to do?

That is a question we get asked a lot. Once again, it comes down to communication, We have to be honest with every client about what we will and will not do. It is about boundaries. Both parties have to establish boundaries right away. Tell the client if there is something you feel uncomfortable with, sexual or otherwise. They have the choice to find someone else who can fulfill the wishes if you cannot. You have the right to turn a client down, just as they have the right to turn you down.

2) You have to want to be there. Clients can tell when you are not into what is happening, especially sexually. That is why you need to keep the lines of communication open. You need to tell them they have crossed a line if you feel they have.

In other words, you cannot just “go through the motions.” Clients want to see how wild you can get, depending on what sexual activity you are performing.

“Some men like a lady on the streets and a freak in the sheets.”

That does not apply to every client, but some can get very dirty and kinky. That is why you need clear boundaries on what you will and will not do for them.

3) Communicate does not include unloading your emotional troubles on their doorstep. The client wants you to be professional. The client wants you to take care of their needs. They have a different type of “unloading” in mind(once again, no pun intended.)

I always suggest using a scented lotion. Come dressed to the “nines.” High-end does not translate to trashy slut. Clients who want that can go beg on the streets of Hollywood Boulevard(Case in point: Pretty Woman).

Hint: Dress well, but not too good. The goal is not to be thought of like a hooker. You could get thrown in jail for that.

Your hygiene needs to be impeccable too. The client will say something if he feels you are not looking well. Once again, communication.

There are a lot of reasons why men look to Las Vegas escorts to occupy their time. Contrary to popular belief, it is not all about sex. Sometimes men just want some companionship that they cannot find through their normal sources of communication.

I recently explored this issue online and found some surprising answers, including some confessions from former Las Vegas escorts as to what they encountered in their paths.

Lollipop Escorts: Confessionals from the men who have used the services and the escorts that showed them the way.

1) Some clients have gone on record saying that they are not happy at home.

“People look at your life. They think your marriage is great. You have two kids. You swim in the social circles you are supposed to. In a way, you have to “keep up appearances.” My wife only married me for the status I brought to the table. It was an arrangement, nothing more.”

“I started using the escorts service in Vegas because I needed something I was not getting. Some nights I wanted someone to have dinner with where we did not have to talk about the kids or our picture-perfect life( you know, going out to dinner to keep up the act). Other times, I wanted someone to have some great sex with. My needs were not being met at home.”

Kevin

Kevin’s story is not unusual. According to several escorts, they have a lot of clients who fit that bill.

2) Sometimes the client just wants to share a dinner date with someone instead of eating alone.

“I have booked appointments with clients who want “someone to share your time with. I had one client that took me to a nice restaurant for a great meal. He has even bought me some nice clothing and jewelry here and there. I do not ask for these things. He simply gives to me without question. I only saw this client two or three times a month, but it was a nice date when it happened.”

Rose, former escort at Lollipop Escorts

3) The client sometimes feels the partner he has let herself go. That happens with some women, especially after they have a few kids. Some women just stop trying to look good for their man. They feel the guy is already bound to them through marriage, so it does not matter what she looks like.

“I cannot tell you the number of men I have provided services for who fit that description. We start with a nice dinner date. Depending on what I am wearing that night, he and I will go back to the hotel room and have several hours of the hottest sex you have ever had in your life. The sex part is outlined in the agreement ahead of time, but you get what I mean. Some men get very turned on by women who make the effort to look good. Some outfits make more of an impression than others if you get my meaning.”

“Several men have confided in me that this is the main reason they start to lose interest. I am not saying whether his feelings are right or wrong. I am simply providing the service for him.”

Britney, a former employee for escorts service in Vegas

4) Some men do not feel like a priority in their relationship. They want to be seen.

“I wanted someone to pay attention to me for once. I know a lot of people. They are either married, not my type, or not interested in me, in that way. It was nice to finding someone to share your time with who wanted to be there. I know she was getting paid, but it is the thought that counts. It was better than sitting home alone and binge-watching reruns on tv again.